Commitment. What is about it that makes most men run for the hills? Us guys, well most of them, just can't give into this for reasons which sometimes even we don't understand. The word usually gives us this image of locking ourselves in a shackles and handing over the keys.....forever!!!
Now ladies if u please imagine putting yourselves into this position I think we can somehow manage to get on the same page even if its only half the page in this context. Plus we think it's a way of admiring the beauty created by God and think its a crime if we just picked one which would be so unfair.
But all said and done, its not like we don't ever want to be stable and love someone for the rest of our lives, we do but we just get that realization slowly.....in some cases really slowly. Still, when we do commit to someone, and here I am talking about people who take time in doing it not the ones who jump into it and realise its not for them and do "bad" things (somehow I am beginning to feel like a priest here....if you have read the last entry this one would just confirm it!!), the commitment is for life! When we say those four words, "Will you trap me?"...oops i mean "Will you marry me?" you can be assured its true to the last blood in the body.
So if anyone is paranoid about their partner not showing commitment, relax a bit and enjoy the life because when he/she is ready you have a lifetime to relish that.